The audience in the video is somewhat younger than the audience to which we often cater here at PreEngaged; however, the principles still apply.  In this video, Eric Ludy talks to a group of girls about how to tell when a guy is worthy to pursue her. This video is challenging for both men and women as it presents a standard for men to reach and a standard for women to not accept anything less than it. Let us know what you think in the comments! (My apologies for the video quality; however, the audio is perfectly fine.) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eTnCvrBexNk … [Read more...]

One of the most drama filled domains in life is a female college dorm. Fifty or more young women, all at a crossroads in life, stuffed into a small area to cry all over each other. On one day, college guys are considered immature and barbaric – and the next day, they are sweet, understanding, and godly. Just walking down the hall to the bathroom, you are likely to hear a thunderous display of fury as a sweet young lady clutches her phone in a death grip and screams out all of her boyfriend's faults. The next day, the same young lady is surrounded by friends as she fixes her hair, puts on her … [Read more...]

Whether you're for or against interracial relationships, most people have a definite opinion on the topic. Some people are influenced by the values and mores of their families of origin; whereas, others have been influenced by the media's increasing propensity for interracial inclusion. So, what do you think? (please comment below!) Three students at UNC Chapel Hill put together an interesting "ethnography on interracial relationships by UNC Chapel Hill students": http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PAlk52_tJr8 After listening to opinion, it's good to ask, "Does the Bible have anything to … [Read more...]

I remember being young and shy. I remember not knowing what to say to the girls who made my heart flutter. I remember the nervousness I had when talking to them or calling them on the phone. So, at that time, was I ready for a dating relationship? No, I wasn't. Why is that...? Women who I've talked to in discussing what they are looking for in a mate said that they wanted a strong man, a man of integrity, a man who has a sense of purpose and direction, someone who wants to provide for his wife, is willing to work hard, and a man who will fight for what is right. Women, am I right? (comment … [Read more...]