In the last two posts, we have covered questions to ask each other before getting engaged and common monetary pitfalls couples fall into; so, let us end this week of posts about handling money by talking about the rewards of saving, investing, and living like no one else! ~smile~ “Why am I saving again?” You will probably ask yourself that question repeatedly as you strive to make wise money decisions. Here are a few motivators to keep you on the right track. Visualize the rewards of good money management! Here are just a few: Giving like crazy! Have you ever had the pleasure of … [Read more...]

It is money week here at PreEngaged. Even if the topic of finances makes your snore, it is an important subject to broach with your future spouse. We do not ask that you become a financial expert (I certainly am not), but that you take a substantial interest in the basics of your personal finances for the health of your future marriage. ~smile~ Dave Ramsey says in most marriages that one person is the nerd, (i.e., the one who loves spreadsheets, numbers, facts, figures, etc.), and the other person is the free spirit (i.e., the one who loves spontaneity, fun, and doesn’t sweat the details). … [Read more...]

Being on the same page with money is essential to any peaceful marriage. Financial trouble and financial differences lead to stress, arguments, and possibly to sneaking purchases (i.e., loss of trust). Whether or not you believe there is an absolute right and wrong way to approach money, it is important that you and your future spouse agree on how money should be managed. So, head to your local coffee shop, grab your favorite caffeinated beverage, and discuss these money questions with each other. There is a good chance this list will spark other questions, so you can have a thorough … [Read more...]