With the New Year approaching, I would love to find a way of ensuring that Eric and I are constantly enjoying the fruit of small victories. The saying “a failure to plan is a plan for failure” is true and I have seen it play out in my own life. Good intentions are not enough to get the job done! If they were, I would be super-model thin by now. ~smile~ When we look at everything we want to accomplish at one time, it is far too overwhelming. But, when we separate our massive goal (e.g., an immaculate home, good health, a doctorate, etc.) into bite size chunks, we will reach it over time. We … [Read more...]
Create a Post-Christmas Tradition! (Christmas Connections, Part 3)
How much do you hate taking down the Christmas tree? Most of us enjoy Christmas-time, but it is so sad when it all ends! I can remember sobbing uncontrollably after Eric and I said goodbye to my parents one year. He even kicked me out of the driver’s seat on our way back for safety reasons. ~smile~ Christmas does not have to end so suddenly. We can make the season last a bit longer if we put our minds to it! Think of some ways you and your sweetie can hold onto the Christmas cheer a little bit longer this year. Below are a few post-Christmas tradition ideas to get you started! Visit an … [Read more...]
‘Tis the Season to Connect (Favorite Christmas Eve Memories) (Christmas Connections, Part 2)
What are your favorite Christmas Eve memories? For me, Christmas Eve was almost as awesome as Christmas morning. In fact, I think I looked forward to the day just as much. It’s the Most Wonderful Time of the Year Every Christmas Eve at around 5pm, my Mom, Dad, and I would make our way through town, over the Neuse River Bridge, and down the street to Granny and Granddaddy’s house. I knew when we arrived there would be collards cooking, many beautiful aromas in the air, my cousins playing football in the quiet street, my uncles watching TV, and my aunts laughing in the kitchen as they put the … [Read more...]
Eight Ways to Connect with Your Sweetie This Christmas! (Christmas Connections, Part 1)
“Christmastime is here! Happiness and cheer! Fun for all that children call their favorite time of year!” Merry Christmas! It’s almost here! Just a few more days before you will be tearing into those gifts, sipping hot chocolate, and making special memories. And, hopefully, you are already making memories! Did your sweetie get to come home with you for Christmas this year? Are you with his or her family? Are you both from the same town? However you are spending Christmas, I hope you are together – whether in person, or by some form of technology. Try to connect no matter how far apart you … [Read more...]
Connecting in the Fourth Quarter (Will You Still be Connecting in Fifty Years?)
If Eric and I make it to our thirtieth wedding anniversary, we will have smooth sailing from then on, right? I would like to believe that Eric and I will reach a point of no return where we no longer have to guard our relationship from bitterness, communication breakdowns, and divorce; but, the truth is no matter how long God gives us on this planet, there will never be a time when we can just throw open the door and tell life to take its best shot. (How scary would that be?) Relationships, and connections, must always be guarded. Precious Older Couples We have all seen them – those … [Read more...]
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