If there was a magic test you and your significant other could take that would give you incredible insight into your relationship and help you make it even better than it already is, would you want to take it?
Well, we don’t have a magic test to offer, but those who have taken The PAIR Test sing its praises. Eric and I love administering and explaining the results of this amazing assessment! We offer The PAIR Test as the first part of our eight week pre-engagement counseling package – or you can choose The PAIR Test option which includes two sessions with us! It is a great way to get your feet wet before deciding if you want to complete the full eight-week program – but we think you will. ~wink~
Below are a handful of reasons we think you might just love The PAIR Test!
- The PAIR Test will help you understand why you and your sweetie tend to experience conflict in certain areas of your relationship. Do you and your sweetheart have a great relationship, but struggle to see eye-to-eye on certain topics? Your PAIR Test results will likely offer insight that will help you understand your inter-relational struggles; and our discussion will likely help you discover some tools for working through them!
- The PAIR Test will help you understand yourself better and give you an objective measure for understanding your personality and preferential differences. All too often I want Eric to act like me and see life the way I do. Referring back to our PAIR Test results is a great reminder to me that God made Eric very different and that those differences, though they can wear on me, are a part of his special design. I can choose to celebrate them or complain about them.
- Most of the time we end up laughing and having a good time with our clients as we go through the results! This process is far from boring and we enjoy providing a laid back, shoes-off coaching environment. We don’t simply spout out information to our clients. We want to know our couples and have as much fun as possible while helping them learn themselves better and prepare for engagement!
- We discuss the results in detail and facilitate dialogue between our clients. Though clients gain a great deal of insight simply from having the results explained to them, we like to take it a step further and discuss each metric in detail, allowing time for questions and dialogue with us and each other. Our past clients have found this approach invaluable to the coaching process! ~smile~
- It’s a great first step to coaching! If you’re interested in the relational coaching process, you can start with The PAIR Test and see how you like it! If you want to continue on to the full eight week introductory program, all you have to do is pay the balance within six months of completing The PAIR Test and we’ll get started!
- You can refer back to the results anytime you want! We send each client a digital copy of the results which can be saved electronically, printed out and placed in a drawer, or even posted on the refrigerator for quick and easy access. It is a good idea to review the results every few months or so as a reminder of the specific and unique dynamics in your relationship.
- Those who take the test are truly helped by it. Eric and I chose to use The PAIR Test as our primary coaching assessment because it is the best one we have come into contact with over the course of our time as graduate students and coaches. We have been trained to use other assessments, but we always go back to The PAIR Test because it is tremendous! The objective results and the in depth discussions that follow help couples identify problem areas as well as areas of strength. Couples leave the process with great insight into their relationship!
- Bonus: We have never had anyone tell us they did not enjoy The PAIR Test experience! ~smile~ The insights which come from this test to the couple’s long-term dynamics together are invaluable to understand before (and even after) marriage!
Eric and I are confident that you and your sweetie will enjoy The PAIR Test experience! If you are interested in working with us, please check out The PAIR Test page, fill out the brief sign up form, and we will quickly get back to you to set up your testing administration. We look forward to being a part of your journey!
How could your relationship be enhanced by taking The PAIR Test?