Welcome to another PreEngaged Mailbag Video where Heather and I take your questions and produce a video answer for you! If you’d like to ask us a question for us to answer with a video, please contact us at: https://preengaged.com/contact-us!
Carissa from Lynchburg, VA asked us this question…
Hello, Eric and Heather! My boyfriend and I met in one of our college classes, have been in a relationship for 6 months, and I think we are a great couple – despite some ups and downs. However, whenever I read about other couples whose love stories seem flawless – for example, Eric and Leslie Ludy – I start to wonder if we’re doing something wrong. We didn’t save our first kiss for our wedding day and we don’t solely communicate via 3-page letter. How can I get over the insecurity I feel by comparing my relationship to these couples, and on the flip side, how do I know when I’m actually lacking something that couples should have…