Below are summaries of the relationship counseling services we offer:
Pre-Engagement and Premarital Counseling
We love helping couples learn more about each other and themselves in order to make an informed decision on whether the person they are dating would be a good life partner for each of them. Ultimately, we want to bring each person to states of clarity, peace, and confidence on whether they want to move forward in their relationship. Additionally, we provide a lot of helpful relationship tools which will last a lifetime and save hundreds of arguments. This is the program we wish had been available to us when we were dating and engaged! Below are summaries and links to our counseling packages.
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One-Month Starter Package
Do you know each other well (or think you do), but want a much deeper understanding of yourself and your partner? Would you have a greater sense of peace if you were better prepared for your relationship’s future? Are you feeling overwhelmed at the thought of engagement and marriage? Do you need issues resolved before moving forward in your relationship?
Whether you are fully confident and looking for tools, or are unsure and trying to decide if engagement is the next step for your relationship, our One-Month Starter Package is for you! In our introductory package, we take couples through The PAIR Test, record personalized video explanations of your results and dynamics, provide comprehensive assignments for you to work through together, and deliver insightful reading assignments to help you assess your relationship. If you want a starting point which provides A LOT of value without a long commitment, the One-Month Starter Package is a great place to begin!
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Better Together: Forging Your Marital Mission Package
Our Better Together: Forging Your Marital Mission package is our most popular package as it combines the foundational elements of the One-Month Starter Package with a focus on tools to forge your marital mission, diving into understanding personality, and learning your calling.
Our Better Together: Forging Your Marital Mission package helps you build that firm foundation and helps you answer important questions such as: What is our purpose as a couple? Who are we individually and who are we as a unit? What impact do we want our marriage to have on the world? How can we serve God and others better together than apart? What is our marital mission?
After learning your individual callings, understanding where you harmonize and how you work best together, and crafting a marriage mission together, the foundation is built and you become prepared to tackle additional individual topics more efficiently.
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90 Days to a Final Answer Package
This package combines the foundational elements of the first two program months with continued discussion on topics which most appeal to you. From topic categories we cover in depth, clients who select the 90 Days to a Final Answer package will receive the Better Together package followed by an additional month to choose five of the in-depth topic categories the couple would like to work through before deciding to get married (or, having already decided to marry).
This package is designed to help couples work through specific issues and answer these questions: After two months of working through personality and relationship assessments and a month of thoroughly discussing topics which concern us most, are we confident in moving toward engagement and marriage? Should we get married? How will we work through the our most significant topics?
Most couples who complete this package will know themselves and each other well enough to make that determination with confidence. It is rewarding to help couples find peace and clarity in finding that answer; or, for those who are already engaged, to continue preparing for marriage.
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The Enduring Adventure Package
For couples who want to go all in and turn over every stone before marriage and are in marriage for the long haul, the complete program, The Enduring Adventure package, is for you! In addition to the PAIR Test, personality assessments, and all materials from the Better Together package, The Enduring Adventure package includes four months of our support and our complete, in-depth topic category catalog including: Healthy Communication, Handling Conflict, Forming Expectations, Practicing Faith and Religion, Managing Money, Getting Engaged and Married, Living Together, Sex in Marriage, Family Futures, and Building Community.
This Enduring Adventure package is complete and designed to engage couples in deep and full discussions to help the couple resolve conflicts, maximize strengths, and build their relational home with expert care. You will emerge with the necessary skills to move down the aisle with confidence as you will have built your foundation and important relationship competencies; and, you will begin your marriage with the major accomplishment of completing The Enduring Adventure package!
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The PAIR Test
The completion and interpretation of the results of this assessment is first included in the One-Month Starter Package. It is an in-depth and comprehensive professional assessment which scores each person on twenty dynamics and shows the current and projected interaction between the couple. This assessment is wonderful for pre-engagement and premarital couples to learn and see how their dynamics will intertwine; however, this assessment is also highly beneficial for married couples in order to understand each other better and provide marital enrichment. 100% of the couples who have completed our packages have listed the PAIR Test as one of their most valuable experiences of our time together. We hope to offer it as a standalone service in the near future.
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Learn Your Calling
Since 2012, I (Eric) have been helping individuals learning their calling. I have discovered that living in the intersection of one’s calling, personality, and passion leads to an extraordinarily fulfilled life. Most people can ascertain their personality from several tests (e.g., MBTI, DISC, StrengthsFinder, etc.) and their passion from the interests they have. However, understanding one’s calling is often very elusive for most people. A calling is not a profession or what you do; rather, it is who you are. Intrigued? Click on the heading to learn more about learning your calling.
For couples working through the Better Together: Forming Your Marital Mission package, this service is already included.
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Agreement for PreEngaged’s Coaching Services
For individuals and couples who want to work with us, they must agree to these terms and conditions. Don’t worry, it is nothing to which we wouldn’t hold ourselves as well. We just want the best for all parties involved in this process.
Click here to read the Agreement for PreEngaged’s Coaching Services