This year, as Hindsight is our theme, in some of our posts this year, we will be revisiting, updating, and republishing posts which have received a significant amount of shares and/or interactions. We previously published a post called Major Turn Offs in Relationships – Talking about Exes (Turn Offs, Part 2) (you are here ~smile~) and it became one of our most viewed posts to date. Sometimes, we talk about our exes with a reason in mind. I want to make him jealous. I want to see her response. And, sometimes we talk about an ex because he or she is on our mind. Whatever the reason, it is a … [Read more...]

In graduate school, I recall one of my professors talking about a student who turned in a paper worthy of receiving a “D” grade. Deciding to give the student grace, he gave the student a “B.” What do you think happened? The student found the professor and disrespectfully complained about his grade. I’m not sure if he demanded a grade change or not, but at any rate, he caused a scene over his low “B” grade. First of all, I was floored at the thought of bombarding a professor in such a way as this student did, but I was equally amazed that he could write such a poor paper and still have … [Read more...]

Maybe bad hygiene is a bigger turn off for women than men, but I can’t imagine too many men standing in line to talk to a woman in sweat pants who hasn’t bathed in days (unless she’s a celebrity). Women may be more vocal about the issue of hygiene, but both men and women appreciate those who bath and groom regularly. When I left for college, I had no idea how blessed I’d be in the roommate department. I was roommates with a friend from my hometown area – and though we had our normal share of roommate squabbles, I am pleased to announce to the world that she bathed... daily! This may not … [Read more...]

Today is a beautifully dreary day. It’s an ideal day for blogging and napping. So far, today’s excitement has consisted of Ramsey (our golden retriever) taking off and running very near to the street as a car was bounding in her direction. Thankfully, she yielded to my scream for her return and came bouncing back up to the front door – blissfully (and ignorantly) unaware that she had been in any danger at all. Ignorance can be a turnoff. When you think of ignorance do you think of someone who is uneducated or someone who doesn’t want to be educated? Merriam-Webster’s online dictionary … [Read more...]

Have you ever thought you knew someone and then suddenly he or she turned on a dime? There are some traits which people can keep hidden well for a while – and then after we get to know them, “surprise!” Insecurity is a trait which can either be obvious from the beginning or kept under wraps for a long time. Have you ever met a guy that was caught off guard by a cool, collected girl that suddenly started crying, yelling, and accusing him of looking at another woman? Have you ever met a girl that thought she was with Prince Charming and then suddenly he became suspicious of every guy within a … [Read more...]