“By this we know love, that he laid down his life for us, and we ought to lay down our lives for the brothers.” – I John 3:16, ESV Think about Christ’s example. When He came to Earth, He did not hide in a cave and spend all of His time communing with the Father. It is tempting to see someone who locks himself away from the world to pray and read Scripture as more holy than someone who spends time with the Lord and then gives of himself to his family, friends, church, and community. It is recorded that Jesus spent time with the Father early in the morning and then ministered to others later in … [Read more...]
C.S. Lewis Quotes from his Book, ‘The Four Loves’ (Love and Connection Quotes, Part 2)
In honor of Eric’s favorite author, today’s post features a handful of quotes from none other than C. S. Lewis. Lewis knew about love and he knew about loss. His books have taught and inspired millions, so I think we can all stand to gain from his wisdom and example. ~smile~ “Affection is responsible for nine-tenths of whatever solid and durable happiness there is in our lives.” – C. S. Lewis, The Four Loves Merriam-Webster Online Dictionary defines affection as “a feeling of liking and caring for someone or something.” What comes to mind when you think of ‘affection?’ Cuddling with your … [Read more...]
We All Need Connection (Love and Connection Quotes, Part 1)
Okay, so I give my thoughts and opinions all the time on this blog. ~smile~ For the next few days, I am going to highlight some other folks’ thoughts instead. (And, I will sprinkle my opinion in there a little too. ~smile~) What do others have to say about love and connection? “Despite our ever-connective technology, neither Skype nor Facebook – not even a telephone call – can come close to the joy of being with loved ones in person.” – Marlo Thomas This is a playful argument I have with my sweetie on occasion. He thinks connecting with others via online video is the best form of … [Read more...]
Wisdom from People God has Placed in My Life
“When God does bring me my spouse, I know the wait will make me appreciate him more.” – Dear friend of mine This is a paraphrase. I cannot remember what she said word for word, but I do remember talking to one of my dearest friends on the phone one day about relationships. I appreciated her perspective on waiting. We will not always know why God has us wait for certain blessings and it is especially hard when you see everyone else around you (or so it seems) enjoying the very blessing you desire most. But, I think my friend showed great wisdom in her statement. In essence, she was saying, … [Read more...]
Celebrity Quotes on Love and Relationships
“Falling in love and having a relationship are two different things.” – Keanu Reeves Isn't that the truth?! Falling in love is this mystical/magical experience that couples enjoy. It's almost as if you're floating on a cloud. You can endure car trouble, long lines at Wal-mart, work frustrations, and bad grades with a smile on your face when you're swimming in the ecstasy of that lovin' feeling. There is nothing wrong with having a butterfly farm in your tummy as long as the relationship is being built on more than physical attraction and sweet nothings. When the butterflies stop fluttering … [Read more...]