Lest you’ve read the last two posts and become discouraged at the number of foolish things men and women do in relationships, let me emphasize the fact that nobody is perfect. Learning to be in a relationship is like learning to dance. You wouldn’t (I hope) beat yourself up for not being a professional dancer after just a few basic lessons. In the same way, you shouldn’t beat yourself up for making mistakes as you learn (yes, learn) to be in a relationship. There is a misconception out there that love comes naturally, and that couldn’t be farther from the truth. Love, as in the twitterpated … [Read more...]

Heather normally writes the posts for PreEngaged (whereas, I edit them for grammar, clarity, and a little content); however, for this Foolish Things series, we thought it would be a good idea if I addressed the men personally (though, ladies, you should still listen in ~smile~) and the foolish things they did in relationships.  Below are five behaviors which men do in relationships that are less than smart (and though each of them are important – the further down the point on the list, the more importance I believe it has). Not listening. “What did he just say?” Guys, though there are … [Read more...]

Happy April Fool’s Day! Be on your toes today, and if anyone tells you they’re pregnant, won the lottery, or discovered a cure for halitosis, ask to see proof! In the spirit of the “holiday,” we at PreEngaged have decided to highlight some of the foolish things women, men, and couples do in relationships. Today, we’ll discuss foolish things to which women are prone in relationships, foolish things men do in relationships on Wednesday, and on Friday we’ll tackle foolish things couples do in relationships. Below are five foolish things women do in relationships.  Buckle up! … [Read more...]