The beginning of a new year often sparks hope and excitement in those of us who are dreamers. There is something about shedding the sadness and disappointment of one year and stepping into the optimism that comes with a clean slate. What was this year like for you? Was it full of good friends, fun, and accomplishments? Are you excited to see what next year has in store? Was this year filled with heartaches and disillusionment? Are you happy to move into a new year, or are you sorry to see this year go? The turn of a year is not only a good time to make plans and resolutions for the future, … [Read more...]
Seven Signs That Your Boyfriend or Girlfriend is Using You (Part 2)
In Part 1, we discussed four signs that your boyfriend or girlfriend might be using you. Today we will cover the final three. If you are concerned that you are in a relationship where you are being used and mistreated, seriously consider walking away. Remember, you are worth more than being used. 5. He or she is constantly asking you for rides, money, or help with projects, but does not reciprocate when you need him or her. Let me speak to the ladies for a moment. If you are dating a guy that is constantly borrowing money from you and all the while he is not trying to find work, lose … [Read more...]
Seven Signs That Your Boyfriend or Girlfriend is Using You (Part 1)
How many times have you looked at other relationships and said to yourself, “That guy or girl is being used and doesn’t even see it!” I’ve had that thought a time or two, but I’ve also been on the flip side of this scenario. My friends could see that I was being used, but I was too caught up in the relationship to realize it until after the damage had been done. Thankfully, by the grace of God I was able to leave those relationships and I now have a tremendous husband. For those guys in my past that I used in any way, I am sorrier than I can ever express. So what are a few signs that … [Read more...]
Writing My First Love Poem
I found the first love poem I ever wrote to a boy. This masterpiece was completed when I was twelve-years-old and the boy for whom it was penned shall remain nameless. After I finished it, I could not wait to show it to my mom because I was so proud of it. Her response disappointed me a bit. Her smile got bigger and bigger until she finally… burst out laughing! Reading it as an adult, I can now fully understand her reaction. Here it is, reproduced for your amusement: In the very inner depths of my heart, you, a dry match, created a spark. Over time, that spark expanded in flames, which … [Read more...]
Did You Know You’re Weird?
We're all weird. I spent so much time worrying about fitting in when I was a kid. Too bad it took me so long to figure out that everybody has weirdness inside. But, you know... it's actually quite... beautiful. Normal people are just so stinkin' boring! No matter how awesome you think you are, you have weirdness in you. Did you know you’re weird? And, if you don't find that weirdness yourself, your future spouse will find it! Some refer to weirdness as quirks, idiosyncrasies, eccentricities, or peculiarities. To get the ball rolling, I'll disclose one of my quirks. I am a bit of a … [Read more...]