When I think about peace, the first place that comes to mind is the home across the street from the home in which I grew up. When I was growing up, I spent countless hours at Miss Betty's house. Whether or not she had aromatic candles burning, her home always had a soothing fragrance. It was not uncommon for me to go visit her – and then fall asleep on her couch. Once, I even fell asleep in the middle of a conversation with her. She let me sleep and went about her business.  There was always the cozy feeling of a fireplace and a good book in her home – even in the middle of summer with the sun … [Read more...]

Joy is not the same as happiness. Happiness comes as a result of pleasant circumstances. We all know at least one couple who were beaming with happiness on their wedding day and then became angry, bitter, and filed for divorce a few years later. Their happiness faded when their circumstances changed. Happiness shows on the faces of college graduates as they walk across the stage, but chances are those happy smiles will fade as they take on the stresses and responsibilities of their new occupation, family, and lives. Joy is not based on circumstances. Joy is not dependent on external stimuli. … [Read more...]

Ahhhh… love. Is there anything like it? The fluttery feeling that pumps into your stomach, along with the lightheaded glee that fills your being when you are with the one you love. Unfortunately… those feelings are not love. They may be an occasional byproduct of love – and there is certainly nothing wrong with having those feelings – but true, God-centered love is a decision that requires selfless and honest behavior. Over the next couple of weeks, we'll be writing about the Fruit of the Spirit and how the manifestation of this fruit is important to your relationship…. Love is the first … [Read more...]