Mary from Washington, DC asked us this question: My boyfriend and I have been dating long-distance for almost two years and have talked about getting married. I think we are a fantastic couple, but ... (See our video response inside!) … [Read more...]
To Confront or Not to Confront… That is the Question (Book Review, Confronting Without Offending, Part 1)
Who does not love a good fight? The tears, the hurt feelings, the raised voices – is it not just great? (Yes, that was sarcasm.) Most of us either hate fighting or fear it. We want to calmly work through problems and enjoy mutual understanding and respect, but we avoid confronting each other for fear that it will turn into a fight. If there is one sin with which most of us contend, it is pride. When our faults are exposed, we tend to lash out in defensiveness which brings the communication process to a screeching halt. What I adore about Deborah Smith Pegues’ book, Confronting Without … [Read more...]
Memories that Shape Us: Family and Friends
The below are quotes and stories which have shaped my views about love and marriage from my family and friends. Welcome to more glimpses in my life’s journey. ~smile~ Mom Before I was married, Mom told me that love matures. Eric and I were in our gushy, crazy, lovey-dovey stage and Mom wanted me to know that couples who have been together for a long time are not typically as touchy-feely as new couples; rather, as they grow together, their love deepens over time. It may not be outward in the form of incessant hugs and kisses; yet, it is the lasting, lifetime kind of love between two partners … [Read more...]
Is Marrying Someone with a Rich Spiritual Heritage Important to You?
Do you spend time praying for your future spouse? What are some of the traits you ask God for in a spouse? Strong leader? Gentle spirit? A specific profession? Good parenting potential? Ministry partner? I can remember asking God for a husband that knew what God had called him to do and would not change direction – even for me. In other words, someone who knew the work God had for him and would not let me talk him out of it. Boy, did God ever answer my prayer on that one! Many times has Eric made decisions for PreEngaged which took me out of my comfort zone (we have previously established … [Read more...]
PreEngaged Mailbag Video: First Year of College and Waiting for Marriage
Josh from Grand Rapids, Michigan asked us this question: I am nineteen years old and have been dating my eighteen year-old girlfriend for the last two years and we're both in our first year of college. We have talked about marriage a few times and we feel as though God is leading us toward marriage. Have either of you advice on how best to conduct ourselves until marriage is a more viable option? (See our video response inside!) … [Read more...]
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