Hindsight is 20/20, so they say. Sometimes, I wonder if I would make the same mistakes again if I had a do-over. Though I pray I would have the sense to make better choices, I remember how intoxicating some temptations were in those days. While I received plenty of love at home, I still craved the connection, attention, and affection of guys – preferably four to six years older than me. My desire for slightly older men has not changed as Eric is almost six years my senior – and I love it! If I wrote about all the dating mistakes I made as a teenager, we would have enough material to fill … [Read more...]

“Tell the Lord about me. Tell the Lord about me. If you are my brother, you won’t tell another. So, tell the Lord about me.” When I was a budding young lady, I remember a guest speaker coming to our church. He was an older gentleman and he sang the little song above as part of his sermon. The message was so simple and so profound that I never forgot the song. When we are angry, frustrated, confused, or hurt, we often become tempted to get on the phone, jump on Facebook, or go see a friend. Why? So, we can tell our side of the story and cut the offending party to shreds. Though I … [Read more...]