If someone had a treasure map and they were willing to show you where treasure was buried, would you be willing to read the map? Of course you would! A thriving, healthy marriage is a treasure and when seasoned marriage experts have information on marital treasures, I want to read what they have to say and apply it to my marriage! Proverbs 22:17-18 says, "Incline your ear and hear the words of the wise, And apply your mind to my knowledge; For it will be pleasant if you keep them within you, that they may be ready on your lips" (NASV). Dr. Dobson is certainly one of the most trusted and … [Read more...]
Why the People who Made Fireproof Endorse Pre-Engagement Counseling
We’re not the only ones who think that pre-engagement counseling is very important. The people who made the movie Fireproof think it’s important too (and if you haven’t seen the movie, we strongly recommend it)! They posted an article on www.fireproofmymarriage.com entitled “The Benefit of Pre-Engagement Counseling.” Check out why they think pre-engagement counseling is significant in preparing for marriage here. You can also check out our pre-engagement counseling services (as well as premarital counseling services)! We’re located in central Virginia; however, whether you live close to … [Read more...]
The Five Languages of Apology
In yesterday’s post, Your Apology Language, Heather discussed the importance of understanding how you best receive apologies – which also affects what you likely do to give apologies. Gary Chapman, well-known author of The Five Love Languages, co-authored a book with Jennifer Thomas called, The Five Languages of Apology: How to Experience Healing in All Your Relationships. In the book, they describe five primary languages of apology: Expressing Regret Accepting Responsibility Making Restitution Genuinely Repenting Requesting Apology Additionally, on Chapman’s 5lovelanguages … [Read more...]
Lead Me by Sanctus Real
This is an amazing song born out of a singer's reaction to his wife asking him to be a stronger leader for her and their children. The first video is the song itself; the second video is the songwriter talking about the lyrical content and the story behind it. Guys, listen to the song and make it your prayer. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yLr6G8Xy5uc http://www.vimeo.com/11629244 … [Read more...]
Pastor Justin Cox – Fifteen Questions Christian Women Need to Ask a Man Before Getting Involved with Him
This pastor ain’t playin’. These are some seriously good, hard-hitting questions that should be asked of guys who are trying to seriously date a lady. So, ladies, pay attention to the type of questions you should be considering of your future mate (whether you ask them – or whether your father asks them on your behalf - which would likely be even better…). You’ll likely want to get a notepad for this…. Guys, you should also take this test and see if you can answer these questions… and if not, study up and develop yourself more. Do note, ladies, that these should probably be asked after … [Read more...]