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Welcome to PreEngaged.com! We are so glad you are here. We hope you find the information and resources helpful as you seek to learn and grow in your current or future relationship!

Our blog is primarily written for those who are single, dating couples, and even engaged couples as we are all about helping people prepare well for marriage (along with tips for spousal selection).  We hope and pray our blog will be a blessing to you and we welcome your comments and feedback!

We update the PreEngaged blog four times per week (Mon, Wed, Thurs, and Fri – with special posts from time to time on Tuesday) and have been doing so since October 2010.  This means we have over 300 posts already of free learning material for you – and growing!  A good place to begin with the blog is on our Must Read Posts page.

We also offer Pre-engagement Counseling and Premarital Counseling. We believe that beginning marriage on a healthy note with preventative relationship coaching will significantly reduce the difficulties and arguments new couples face in the first few years of marriage. How much would it be worth to you in order to reduce the fighting and tension that otherwise would naturally occur in your relationship at the beginning of your marriage? It is significantly more difficult to fix problems once they arise than it is to prevent problems and miscommunications before they start.

Additionally, the PAIR Test is a comprehensive test we give our pre-engagement couples that shows the different personality traits and preferences of each individual. It is so effective and has been so highly praised by our clients that we decided to offer it as a standalone service.  After the test is scored and graphed, we spend two sessions with each couple explaining the results of the test, discussing how the results have affected their past together and what the couple can expect in the future for their personalized dynamics.

On our About Us page you will find our photo as well as our credentials and links to our love story. Additionally, you will find our contact information, information on our coaching services, and links to hand-written testimonials from some of the couples we have coached!

Also, we offer a selection of resources – growing all the time!  Over the years we have found a number of books to be invaluable to helping couples prepare for marriage and thrive in marriage.  Please go to our Recommended Books to find out more about those!

One of the questions we are often asked is, “How do I know when I’ve found ‘the one’?”  The common (and unsatisfying) answer to that question most people give is: “You’ll just know.” Well, we have developed a 7-part course called Beyond “You’ll Just Know”: 7 Indicators You May Have Found the One!  You can sign up for it below:

Found your match yet?
Beyond "You’ll Just Know": 7 Indicators You May Have Found the One!
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We are also in the process of developing more courses to aid you as you move from singlehood into marriage. Please be on the lookout for more information – as they will be coming soon!

Last, but not least, we give a tenth of our net revenue to charity. If you would like to know more about the charity you are supporting when we serve you (as we couldn’t do it without your help!), please click here.

Overall, our goal is to serve you by being a blessing in helping you learn more about yourselves, each other (if in a relationship) and to help prepare you for an amazing marriage!  If there’s any questions you have or anything we can do to serve you, please do not hesitate to contact us and let us know!

– Eric and Heather Viets